Pavan, Week #4 - Do You Really Care?

We all have our own personal beliefs; some being private and others public. You probably hold these beliefs close to your heart, but if you were to see someone attacking one of them online, would you defend it? I mean, it really depends on what they’re attacking, right? It could be someone saying something about chocolate being disgusting, or they could be saying your choice of religion has no place in America. Ultimately, it comes down to how hurt you are by the other person or group, and how willing you are to put yourself in the public view to support those ideals. If you do decide to become a “keyboard warrior”, what does that say about the kind of person you are? 

Let’s just say that a person replies to an Instagram post that goes against a core belief of theirs. Why’d they do that? Do they really care about the issue? Let’s also say another person sees that reply, and they agree with it, but they choose to scroll past it. Why’d they do that? Do they really care about the issue? When a person decides to reply, it might show that they are someone who deeply cares and does not mind being attacked in retaliation. If they don’t reply, it could mean that the issue is just not as important to them. Everyone has different beliefs, and even if two people agree on an issue, one of them might have a much stronger conviction than the other. It makes up a larger part of their identity. 


Others choose to reply or not reply based on levels of attention. It matters less about whether they are trying to defend themselves or support a peer, and more about the potential rush or wave of distress they get from an online audience. Some reply purely performatively! They see a controversial topic and decide to join in on the conversation, throwing in their “two bits”. They could be someone who is very quiet in real life, but once they get online, they transform into someone who lives off of causing trouble or interacting with drama. The person could barely know anything about the thing others have spent hours arguing about, and yet, they would still reply to make sure people saw that they replied. Even when people do care about the issue, they just don’t have what it takes to reply to something and have everyone be able to read it. They’d rather keep their thoughts to themselves, even if it means someone else is left hanging, without anybody to support them. This isn’t necessarily wrong to do, but it just shows the type of person someone is. They’re the type to share out with a few friends, but nothing beyond that, and that’s okay! 


How someone chooses to express themselves, and whether they even choose to express themselves can give some insight into how much something matters to a person or whether that person will even bother to protect something that matters to them.


Comments

  1. I definitely fall under the “quiet online” category, but I understand how important sharing an opinion is to some people. I think people who share their thoughts online that reflect their core beliefs are important, as it takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there in such a public space. Is a core belief truly core if you’re not willing to defend it? These people are also important for changing things; if no one was willing to say anything, nothing would happen! Speaking out like this is what makes things change, and progresses how the topic is perceived in either of the opposing directions. People who comment on the matter in a performative way, however, can make the discussion worse as they don’t actually contribute or progress anything. So many people comment on things on the Internet, sometimes I wonder how much of it is a true belief and how much is a response to that simply to say something.

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  2. Pavan, this was an insightful look into beliefs and identity for me. I believe, however, that for some people, while they may feel passionate in supporting their beliefs, society forces them to subdue and suppress those beliefs (in some cases rightfully so). For example, someone living in the Bay Area who supports Nazism may have those beliefs entrenched in their identity, genuinely believing in racial superiority and eugenics. However, because they are living in the Bay Area, a relatively progressive region, they cannot possibly be public about their beliefs without being shunned by the area they live in, even possibly being retaliated against. This ties into the concept of shame, which ultimately influences how we act—if shame stopped being as strong as it once was, would some more extreme, destructive viewpoints emerge? Would some be fully public about their possibly harmful beliefs? Or will a new form of social exclusion occur to prevent those beliefs from surfacing? These are all questions that are more important than ever in today’s society.

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  3. Hah! That's a funny picture. I like it better than the goldfish wearing a shark fin that some teachers like to pin up to their classroom walls. Your picture is more novel. Maybe I can recommend that to some of my teachers!

    Well, what type of online persona are you, Pavan? I read lots and lots of things online, some of them kind of aggravating. But I hardly ever comment. When I do, like on YouTube videos, usually music videos, it's to say how amazing a song is and how I like it a lot or to put in my input on a video that mentions a place important to me, like where I'm from. I think online debate duels are kind of pointless, and it's sad when I see a reel talking about a sensitive topic, for example, and then some ragebaiters commenting below, making the OP react negatively and lose their cool. I'm like, "Aww, just ignore that troll! You had such an amazing post, don't let comments ruin it."

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